Venting...

So tomorrow is the day that I bring a guy home for the first time. To introduce him to my parents, have them meet him, sit down, talk to him, and get to know him. And I already know they're gonna love him, he's a really good guy. He's sweet and funny and caring and he's everything that my "daddy's always wanted for his little girl." Plus, he's going to meet my brother. Which is a huge step for me, because I only introduce people to my brother who are of super significant importance to me, (which means by the way while i'm thinking about it ian, kevin and taylor, you all need to meet him!) because part of his disability is the fact that he gets really attached to people so i only introduce him to people who are going to stay in his life for a very long time.

now onto the day.... i havent blogged in a few days but today is one of those days that i need it.

Shit happens. One of my best friends told me that he doesn't love me. Which is a very painful thing to hear, because I've layed a lot out on the line and opened up at lot lately to people who seem to care... so who else is gonna do that to me now? My jaw dropped, my body tensed, and I walked away. I thought I was going to cry. I really did. It was horrible.

Mod B, someone made fun of my brother. I don't care how nice he is, what's he's been through or what he's currently going through. You do. not. make. fun. of. my. brother. And then, people get angry at me for getting defensive over my brother.. cut me some slack. better yet, cut me the whole god damned rope, because my brother is the one person in my life who NEEDS ME, he needs me every single day of his life, without me, my brother wouldn't have half of the things he has today. I have sacrificed so much for that kid, and I'd do it all over again. Everything I do is for him, so think twice before you stick it in my face, kiddo, seriously. You don't know shit about me.

So then discussing the events of mod b afterwards, she gets angry with me because she thinks that i'm upset because of nick. It had nothing to do with him. And she snapped at me for it. She genuinely had no reason to, telling me to cut him slack because of the hell he is going through. Sorry but me cutting Nick slack was me forgiving him for walking out on me. I wasn't even upset with him in the first place. I never thought that you'd get upset and yell at the one person who has stood by your side through everything, no matter what.

It hurts, it really does. I'm not angry. I'm really not. I'm hurt. Genuinely and deeply hurt. I don't know how else to explain it.

But, shit happens and people snap at you for the things that mean the most to them.

It is what it is, and no one can change it. But for right now, I'm going to continue being upset.

OH! TAYLOR! Your haircut looks amazing, and thanks for listening to me today.

ahhhh.

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